Today was a day of professional success for me which in and of itself is a wonderful moment, but it feels somewhat selfish for me to share that moment on a day when two friends of mine struggle with family health issues. Both serious. Both with family members (a father and a mother-in-law) who have been admitted into the ICU over the long weekend. Both situations make me stop and consider my own life and how fortunate I am that my father survived his ordeal last year at this time. They both remind me to be thankful for another year of time with my father. He is a beautiful soul and has taught me much over the years. I am so grateful that he survived.
Instead, today’s moment is about sharing my love and energy with these two individuals, and, hopefully by extension, their families.
My friend’s friend’s father (for I have only recently had her come into my circle) has ALS (more commonly known at Lou Gehrig’s disease). In May, he found the strength to travel to Bahamas to see his daughter wed. I’ve seen the video. You can see the pride and joy in his eyes. This coming weekend his daughters and their friends run the Toronto Waterfront Marathon in his honour and to raise funds for the ALS Society of Canada. His condition has deteriorated quickly since last week. This family is in their darkest hours as they sit and wait.
I sent this new friend of mine a brief note via email. I never knew if or when she’d receive it, but I had hoped it would give her a breath of light in her time of darkness. She replied late today thanking me. I can only hope that my simple words have offered some solace; some moment of pause in the pain.
My other friend is a dear long term friend. (So long we are like family really!) Her mother-in-law was also admitted over the long weekend. A terrible case of gall stones and pancreatitis. As old as she is, she’s started to recover, even though she was on life support only a day ago. With every update, it seems MIL is improving steadily. A different outcome, sure, but no less painful for the family as they waited through the dark days of the weekend. Again I sent a message filled with love and energy to my dear friend - I also sent some love to her husband (a gent I know well!). I know she will absorb it and share it doubly with her husband and his Mother. I can know that this sharing of love and energy will help to penetrate the darkness they are in. I know they will amplify all of the energy they are receiving from many around them and put it too good use. It’s all I can do to stop and think of them as often as I can and send them a bit more.
So today’s moment: Share your love and energy. Why wait for something tragic to happen. There is much darkness around us every day. How easy is it to breathe light into it?
Moments outside yourself.
Moments of love, light and energy.
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