Today was Mother’s Day. A day to celebrate Mom’s everywhere who dig deep to find patience and who share their humor and love everyday. Today, sadly, was not about my dear sweet Mother. (though we certainly find ways to give her love!)
Instead of celebrating the wonderful woman who raised me today, (a woman who is strong, kind and overly generous with her love and positive energy), she and I spent the afternoon keeping my Dad’s mind occupied from his coming open-heart surgery. We were all in good spirits as we shared stories and then eventually played some cards. There was much laughter in hushed tones in the shared hospital room. We giggled like silly school kids waiting to be shushed. Fun and laugher amoung the nerves.
And while we were unable to focus solely on Mom today, I know she was comforted that I was with her. In the emotion of the day, she didn’t really read her cards. I know, tomorrow when it is over, she will take the time to savour every word. But today, today she was focused on making sure my Dad was comfortable and focused on his tough job ahead. Selfless. She’s always been so selfless.
In my own private way I celebrated Mom from the moment I left my house to the end of the day. After all, the amount of love she has for my father is tangible and adorable to watch. (Don't we all dream of that? ) My first stop of today, which also reminded me of my incredible Mother was the inspiration of today’s moment.
As children my Mother would always remind my brother and I “waste not want not”. The premise being, don’t take more than you need, or if you do, share or repurpose it.
On my way to meet my Mom and Dad at the hospital I stopped to eat lunch at a lo
cal Mr. Sub. There was gent, maybe a wee younger than I who ordered, was served before me, and he finished eating before me. I watched him as he left.
He paused just outside the door and started to rub his fingers together. It actually took me a moment to understand what he was doing. He was actually standing there crumbling his leftover bun onto the ground below. When the realization came I smiled immediately and thought to myself “waste not want not”.
There were many other moments today that reminded me how special my mother is. So, while we weren't able to have a big focused celebration of Mom today, I know I celebrated her all day long.
Thank you Mom for teaching me what is most important in life. Of course I'm at your side helping. You taught me well.
Moments of childhood memories.
Moments being thankful for such a beautiful soul in my life.
