Moments D346: Butter

What a day! It was hectic with much excitement, no lunch and in the end a longer day than I expected it to be. (Even pulled over later by an OPP because I need to renew my license sticker! WHOOPS!) But, the day was also one where much was accomplished. These are the kinds of days that I love most. Busy, positive and productive. And today’s moment came from the end of my day as I shared conversation with a work colleague. He was commenting on my ability to communicate and how he appreciated my words. This coming from someone I respect and who publishes a magazine. My words. Really?

So out of curiosity, I asked him - “What is it about my words that you appreciate?” He took a moment before responding and he answered: Butter.

I’m sure there must have been a quizzical look on my face because he quickly added that all his favourite foods have a dab of butter on them. Butter isn’t necessary, but it’s certainly a lovely luxury. My words, have butter. My words have luxury to them.

Huh. I kinda liked that compliment. It’s a simple analogy, but one that seems to fit well. I know, in business, in relationships, in life, I take the extra time to find the right words. Sure, the days can be hectic and short of time, but people deserve “buttered” words. They deserve that moment of acknowledgement that they are the centre of my attention in that moment. Why not? It doesn’t take that much more effort and I know that people notice. Now, I have an adjective for it. Buttered words.

Moments to show people that you are taking the time with them.

Moments for buttered words.